What people ask first, in order

Many courts expect or require one, and even where it's optional, a lawyer is the person who catches a missing consent before a judge does. I'll tell you honestly what the process in your case demands.

Earlier than you think. Most families call before they have a match or a surrogate, and a few weeks of planning can save months later.

Yes. Bring what you have, whether it's a stalled home study, a consent that needs redoing or an agreement you're not sure about.

Yes. Who may adopt or be named a parent depends on the state, so I check the rules against your facts before we start.

No. I act for the adopting or intended parents. A birth parent or surrogate should have a lawyer of their own, and I can explain how that's usually arranged.

No. It's specialised work with foreign and federal agencies, and I'd send you to a lawyer who does it daily.

I write down my fee before you sign. Court fees, home study fees, agency fees and medical costs are paid to others, so I list the ones I expect.

It depends on the kind of case, the court's calendar and how fast the paperwork comes together. I give you a range, never a promise.

Mostly no. Meetings can be by phone or video, and I'll tell you whether the court expects you in person for the hearing.

After a final order, a new birth certificate can usually be issued. I explain the steps and help with the application.

A final adoption order is generally honoured everywhere. Some families add one for extra security, and I'll say if that makes sense for you.